Married Women Are Just As Bad As Married Men..?
Ok so here it is, My wife and i have a fantastic marriage, we have been together for years, I buy failing companies sell off assetts and tear down the company. Recently I purchased a local video store in our town that has been in business for 20 years. I decided that they had been running it wrong and i have been working there for the past month getting it into top shape and profitable again.. Now my wife comes to visit me several times a day bring me lunch just to talk for a few minutes or just for a kiss.. I bring my daughter to work with me everyday set up a play area for her and life is just great..
Why do married women or women who come into the place persist on hitting on me, I like the smiling faces i think its funny to watch them flirt, but at the end of the day i would not cheat on my wife unless your vagina is lined with gold and spits diamonds.
But here in lies the problem i try my best not to flirt but its natural im a people person, but now i have these two married women who consistantly try to take it a step further by inviting me out for drinks or dinner, I have already said no but they still persist, its also getting worse because i would hate for my wife to feel bad if she heard some of the comments i receive… What should i do how can i handle it.
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You are a good husband but you have clearly made a bad judgment call by reciprocating these flirting matches with these women. There is always a line that should not be crossed whether it is innocent or not. Now these women have a lack of respect for your marriage because they do not respect their own. It is time to make some changes. Keep you positive personality but the flirting must stop. The next time you say no and they persist inform, or remind them, that you are a happily married man and if you gave indication of you not being you are sorry. You are a friendly guy who might have crossed the line with good intentions. Inform these woment that their husbands love them very much and they should considre taking their spouses to lunch or dinner to bring that joy back into their lives. Your wife and child is your top priority and you would never do anything to damage that. You would appreciate if they would stop the flirting and leave the conversation from now on platonic. You thank them for their kindness and business but you would hate for your wife to get the wrong idea. Your love for her is stronger than that. You respect her and love her dearly. When they began to cross that line you kindly interupt and tell them to enjoy their movie and change the subject. Ask them how is the husband doing. Change the playing field that way you are not rude and remind them that they are married at the same time. They see that you are a good man and don’t have that at home my dear. That is not your fault. They envy what your wife has. That is why they do it.
remind them everytime that they ask that you are married and you dont plan on ruining that relationship for anything, really that is all you can do you cant stop people from liking you lol good luck with that one.
Have a good day
Tell her about it, pre warned is pre armed, tell her before the gossips start, gives her time to sort out how to deal with it.
(mine is gold, but only spits emeralds).
I don’t get why it’s so hard to keep saying, “No thank you” to them. Seems to me like you’re getting upset over something very small and easy to handle.
Lol, I’d accept and bring my wife.
But yeah, you should tell your wife.
A little tease, ‘Guess what happen to me today…’
You could hire me…I’ll know how to handle those women…
Say no?
Why is that even a challenge?
What you should do is keep on telling these women that you are happy married man……..For one thing if you really didn’t like them coming on to you then you know how to stop them……You don’t have to be mean to them to let them know that you don’t want them to come on to you any more but there is times you have to be mean to let some one know what you fell when they won’t stop……..Well good luck hope that helps you…..
I don’t know about married women. I’m happy with my husband wand wouldn’t flirt with anyone else. I was married only recently and the first time my husband went out with his friends he came back saying he had a really bad night because girls kept hitting on him. He said they were all very much aware he’s married because he kept showing the ring, but they wouldn’t stop. He never ever received that kind of attention when he went out before he wore his wedding band. I think it’s the idea that if a man is married, then he’s not scared of commitment. Problem is, that’s the point : he’s committed.
But i hand it to you : women can be real b*tches.